Its hard to adjust when you don’t want to or to be in a place where you have to give up some things just to live and to be successful. But truly BELIEVE that God has not forgotten about you, He has to groom you for the position that he has called you to be in. He is transforming you..you have to go through a process of lack in order for God to process you..meaning tht you have to get closer to him. Dont give up..He’s there.